Wicklow

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Sometimes, I think that some men must really hate women. That’s a strong statement. That a particular group might actually, truly, deep-in-the-bones hate and loathe an despise and be afraid of: women. I’m thinking of the Wicklow mountains, wondering just how many female bodies are buried there. Yet again, another body has been recovered, this time of a lovely young Rumanian who was beaten and tortured beyond belief before they finished her off and dumped her body. There are more females than males up there, I’ll venture, though it’s no less awful for men.

But I’m thinking yet again, that County Kildare has a killer-at-large, some no doubt averagely respectable bloke who has killed at least five women in the last twenty years and has got away with it. Deirdre Jacobs, Jojo Dollard, Annie McCarrick to name but three. The list is very long. The list is long of women, girls, young ones who were out minding their own business – in a pub, having a drink; walking down a street; walking around in broad daylight – only to find themselves either being chatted up or dragged into a car before being raped and having the living daylights beaten out of them. Non-psychopathic killers usually panic when they realise what they’ve done. Killing the victim is the desperate act of someone who doesn’t want the victim to blab. As for the psychopathic ones? Killing comes naturally, without feeling. It’s as cold as ice, because such killers have no active conscience, no sense of remorse, no guilt-feelings that would prickle through the minds of the majority. And so, young women’s bodies are dumped.

Here is a list of way they are dumped: in cars, in refuse sacks, in bins, in suitcases (a 2 x 3 is a recent example, in which the remains of a beautiful young Malawian woman were crushed, pressed, compressed), in rivers, canals, in lakes, in forests, in skips – and of course in the Wicklow mountains. Forest and mountains are the refuge of the desperate, the ideal place to dig deep and drop a body in. Plenty of foresting, plenty of rocky outcrops, heathery beds. Nothing but the sound of the wind and the birds, a distant engine snorting through the Sally Gap in the distance, all very safe and a long way away from where the killer is digging, digging.

There is no end of concealing places in the mountains, and these guys know it. I will never for the life of me understand why men who are not involved in such activities, men who deplore violence and brutality, cannot or will not get themselves organised in a political manner to demonstrate their objection to the behaviour of some of their own gender. After all, how would they feel if it was their sister, mother, aunt, wife, girlfriend, whose body was defiled, tortured, brutalised and then dumped like a piece of offal?

How would they feel? 

BUDDHISM, MINDFULNESS, CHRISTMAS AND FAMILY

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So. There I’ve been since last August, attending the occasional Mindfulness day – a few hours here, a day-long session there – with a small group of similar people from mostly the Kildare area. We are a motley group in that we all seem to be quite different from one another. Our teacher or mentor is a whizz – inspiring to listen to and observe, and everything he says makes absolute, beautiful sense. I’ve been reading The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying by Sogyan Rinpoche and finding it wonderful, accessible and interesting. It has made me re-view my ideas on reincarnation. Over the last twenty or so years I’d more or less dissed the idea of coming back for a second or third go at living, often because some of the returnees who ‘remembered’ past lives always seemed to be glamorous Egyptian figures or Napoleon’s right-hand man. So to speak. Scepticism kicked in.

Nevertheless, I’ve been reading this material, listening to the mentor, then dipping in to Tich Naht Han’s ‘The Miracle of Mindfulness’. Thanks to these, my head has been swirling into its dream life of possibilties, I have had new hope and considered yet again the idea that much of the purpose of this material life has to do with slow purification, as we attempt to strip away ego-concerns in preparation for the next ‘stage’; I have been buoyed up by the idea that the kharmic actually does have meaning and that I have not been misled, despite the ongoing stereotyping of the idea of ‘kharma’. Now I know, that despite my meditations, despite the purchase of a low bench to support my back so that I don’t snap in two in the lotus position with my arthritic hips/knees; despite my regular attempts to pull back, be aware, do the three-minute breathing techniques that calm the mind, I AM STILL ONE HELL OF A LONG WAY FROM TRUE MINDFULNESS! How do I know? 

Let’s put it like this: my first day-long session was with the mentor back in August, during which eight participants practised such techniques as Slow Walking around his glorious summer garden, like something from the War of the Zombies as we deliberately slowed all physical movement to a point where, at times, it was initially difficult to balance.

Different people were attending for different reasons. There was the question of loss in some people’s lives, of bereavement. There was also the ongoing question of anxiety, depression, feeling over-squeezed by routine obligation which seemed to have a stranglehold on several of us. And there were one or two who are ongoing searchers, who have been studying and attending to mindful techniques for years.

I left that evening feeling fantastic. I was calm, positive, had already planned how my coming days might be interspersed by little nodules – gems, actually – of enlightenment and awareness as I would remind myself of my breathing, of being in the Now, of giving myself to the Moment, no matter what that ‘moment’ actually was.

But the minute I got in the door home, I hit a snag. Someone – I don’t remember who exactly, husband or daughter I suppose – asked something of me. It was something quite small and ordinary, along the lines of ‘Did you remember to …?’ The thing is, I snapped. Quick, sharp, like a piece of elastic, I zoomed into defensive mode, annoyed at the intrusion on my newly-found peace of mind, and retorted with a very unmindful comment. You could say it was disappointing. Slightly comical too now that I think of it. But downright the opposite of what I would have hoped for. Still, I reminded myself that this was my first foray into Mindfulness and that I still had a long way to go with mastering the technique. The Dali Lama himself, for heaven’s sake, remains on an ongoing path to perfection, does he not?

And so I pressed on, mostly enjoyably through the weeks. As it happened, I had plenty to occupy me mentally. I was aware of richness in my life, of the good fortune of being able to pursue an occupation I love and of also having ‘outside’ work in the world of human interaction. I felt grateful. For the month of September and into early October I think I existed in a blissful state of mostly non-anxiety. That’s unusual for me. I was putting it down to Mindfulness, rather than actual positive life changes, and that, I suspect, was my mistake. Because what I began to notice was that, reliably, after almost every lovely blast of an afternoon with the mindfulness group, I found it incredibly difficult to return to my ordinary life and to be in any way ‘mindful’. Ha! Before I knew it Christmas was looming on the horizon. It does loom for me, unfortunately. It is the season of being holed-up, in an over-heated house. Christmas is always a challenge. 

But I do realise now that I may be one of those people who is not capable of mindfulness. Or if so, only for the tiniest, most minuscule time-segments, a flicker of time really, a spark of awareness, and then it’s all vanished and yet again I am subsumed by the normal savaging of daily doings and dealing with myself, I am subsumed by my own hard-learned and earned techniques of camouflaging my moods and physical ailments, I am subsumed by trying to cope. I wonder if I will ever achieve mindfulness, that is, if I will ever succeed in being sufficiently detached and compassionate, in having enough stillness of being, to achieve the true awareness for which, deep down, I believe we all hanker.

Because when other people are present and their comments are challenging, sometimes aggravating, or when deafness makes communication sometimes difficult, it is really hard to be mindful, to live in the moment and not wish you could get the hell away from the situation. I think of Jean Paul Sartre’s sentence that ‘L’enfer, c’est les autres’ and nod my head. And yet, perhaps that hell is within me, I argue. It goes against every fibre in my pride-filled being to pull back, and give myself to being in the moment, quietly, as if that momentary awareness were the only thing that mattered in the whole of existence. It is very difficult to believe it matters, because the other side of me – where ego resides, but also where passion blossoms – wants to drive towards the complex, though perhaps in Buddhist terms UN-aware, but highly alert part of living. That surely is valuable and not to be dismissed: there may be a broader aspect to all this being in the moment, that in which awareness and enlightenment can also be achieved through the plan of art, the plan and adventure of one’s work, the active plan of wishing, dreaming, constructing, indeed the things of ambition, which are not to be disregarded even in the thick of the mindful.

I will persevere with mindfulness. I will persevere with Buddha and with darmakhaya, I will continue to make prayer to the oneness of existence and to the idea of enlightenment within and without of me. I know I’m in this for the long haul. 

Corporal punishment by parents on children

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So the Minister may be attempting to drive through a complete ban on slapping, smacking a.k.a. beating, children? Good luck to her. This will be a hotly contested one, in a nation which often seems polarised on the question. On the one hand there are those who don’t hesitate to implement a quick, sharp slap, who regard it as perfectly reasonable and argue that if your child starts to wander off the pavement onto the busy road, or starts to teeter towards a blazing fire (even one with a fire-guard) despite having been warned, that this is the only way to prevent children harming themselves. And in the other corner of the ring, we have a range of sensibilities which includes people who believe you must always ‘talk it through’ with your child, who spend their whole lives, it seems, avoiding what they regard as ‘inappropriate’ behaviour; and in this corner of the ring we have intelligent debate not of the middle-class or any other class variety, which simply insists that gently reared children will themselves grow up to be self-reliant, assertive, not insecure and definitely non-bullying. Such parental styles have always existed, and to good effect. The problem with the people in the ‘short, sharp, slap’ corner, is that all too often the so-called slap is applied when the parent has just lost their rag and is in a blazing temper. What do people who lose their temper usually do? They take it out on someone weaker, who usually cannot fight back (not yet, that is). And this is the problem. If the Minister wants to do anything useful, I suggest she organise and enforces National Parenting Classes for ALL PARENTS regardless of who they are. Parents should be screened. I’m not joking. Prospective parents should automatically have therapy available to them before they embark on this most wonderful, joyous, but challenging life-path. Of course, EVERYONE could do with a bit of therapy while they sort themselves out in adulthood, but especially those who have children in their care – because they above all, will find themselves at a loss to know how to behave. There is nothing like one’s own children to bring out the dormant disasters from one’s own past, after all. According to research, if you were slapped or caned, there’s a fair chance you’ll do the same to your kids. This isn’t always the case, obviously, and many once-slapped/beaten/caned/walloped kids grow up to be so adamantly opposed to such treatment that they never, ever allow their guard to slip when with their own children. They will vocalise a correction, will point out something, will turn it into a game and make an attempt to defuse a situation, but rarely, and often never, do they resort to  violence.

I am opposed to the violation of children. I believe it to be wrong. It is usually a violation on little bodies, and not something that emerges from a source of inner wisdom or instinct, so much as a loss of adult control. Of course, being human, that’s natural too I know. And there’s the nub of it: the Minister needs to get people AWARE of their own capacity for violence, to make them more responsive to the noting that parenting isn’t like minding your dogs. Unlike dogs, who always adore us, and cats, who do too but pretend not to, children don’t uniformly adore us for feeding and walking them, for putting them to bed, for talking over them at table, for making them eat food that’s good for them but which they may not like. Children are small humans. That’s what the Minister needs to hammer home. It’s quite simple. Small – humans – are – just – like – big – humans. If we see them that way, it’s less likely we’ll wallop them and more likely we might try to figure out what’s actually going on.

That being said, I know that as humans, we always screw things up. Which brings me back to National Therapy for Prospective Parents (or NTPP).

Adieu!

Feeding the Crone

In Celtic mythology, the archetype of the Crone is an ambiguously interpreted figure. How do I see her? For me, she is the door-opener, the portal to older age. She has no illusions about either herself or others. Her expectations of life have been shaved cleaner, clearer, smoother, she is full of the art of living and her art is honed from the craft of daily endurance. If I compare her to anything, she may be seen as a smoothly-carpented table, full of notches and curlicues, the supports strong. A person could be laid out on such a table. A person could have sex on such a table. A person could be operated on surgically on such a table. She has seen the comings and the goings. Her opposite in life – for me at least – is the warlock, the elder male who shares similar qualities of endurance. But a crone needs feeding. Her intellect is vast and almost insatiable, her appetite for the politics of good gossip is almost equal to her intellect, and her distance from anything that bothers her is noteworthy. She has done her time being close up to things; she has lived at close quarters to the attitudes of those who need her and are needy. She too is needy, but not generally of others. Her greatest need is to be left alone to think, to travel, to wander, or to stay at home with her feet in the ashes of her own dying fire, a book in one hand, and a glass of frothing cider in the other. She is busy squaring up with life, and this next passage as she moves through crone-dom – the quality of it and how it is lived – is of great concern to her. Here is my Crone poem below . . .

Feeding the Crone

The crone is knocking on my door.
Despite myself I open. 
A north wind gusts in.
‘Any chance of a cup of tea?’
she asks, conciliatory,
as if we hadn’t been through this rigmarole
several times already.
 
I wouldn’t grudge a person
the chance to wet their lips,
I’d throw in a biscuit or two,
not to mention a slice of the cake
my daughter made yesterday. That’s
what she needs! A young girl’s cake,
free-range eggs, flour,
country butter, rich with youth,
the  romance of moist confection.

 

I slip the crone a huge triangle,
knowing she won’t say no
to a turn like that.
Blue and white frosting sidle
down the sides, stick to her fingers,
make their way to sweeten her mouth.
She swallows and licks,
casts a glance at the cake a second time.
Again, I cut deep, to fill her sagging,
groaning belly. What else would I do?
By the time she’s done,
she hesitates in the doorway,
a smile almost cracking her jowls.
‘That was some cake,’ she whispers,
turning away, patting herself
as if she was pregnant.

On finding a Jordanian baby in a basket . . .

Baby Boy, Quaryat al Beri
 
They have left him by my sun-bed,
asleep in the shade. His fists are scrolls,
eyelashes dense fluttering fans,
his chest barely moves.
 
Mother and grandmother test the shallows
of the inlet, their garments spreading darkly.
They dip and manoeuvre, like giant jellyfish.
The young mother smiles back as I peer
at her sleeping son. She senses the waft
of approval, that unresistant seduction, a baby
settled in the globe of another woman’s gaze.
 
But she cannot know the rest:
my imagining of her son,
his future privilege.
No matter how lowly his birth,
there will be women yet lower.
 
But for now, I too love him, his tight,
creamy fists, the quivering brown lashes,
that incipient dark brow, eyelids
sealed against all divisions,
the hustle, the weighty conscriptions
of his future – to Allah,
to another version of this-god,
that-god, whatever-god, sun,
 moon, crescent and sickle, myriad
universes, all newly exploded stars,
all that he may believe as his by right.

Trolley-time in A & E, Tallaght

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The British nursing heroine Florence Nightingale, who was a gifted mathematician and statistician, proved that patients in London hospitals died at a rate of 90% while the sick that remained at home died at a rate of 60%. An interesting statistic in times when many people fear having to arrive at an accident and emergency unit for even the most rudimentary treatments.

Everyone should get to ‘do the trolley’. I arrived at Tallaght Hospital in an ambulance with no shock absorbers, having survived the rattle and hum drive from Naas to West Dublin. Apparently, once the shock absorbers go, the official position is not to replace them. The ambulance itself was fifteen years old.

It doesn’t matter why I had to be brought to hospital by ambulance. Let’s just say my throat was bleeding after a tonsillectomy and I was in no position to talk as the Middle Eastern doctor peered into my mouth. What matters is what I saw, just as thousands of people have done who experience a stint on a hospital trolley, or being treated in a corridor over a period of days. A woman I know says her father spent a few days in a chair in the Mater while waiting for a bed. So, in comparison, a trolley is relatively luxurious.

To be honest, I’d expected an all-out battle of sorts, even though it was a Monday night and not the notorious weekend Booze, Batter and Bawl shift, but despite the trolleys and the lack of space, there was order, order everywhere. The nursing and medical staff are quietly heroic. I half expected Alan Alda to come storming urgently through the flap of a military tent, just like in the television series China Beach, but no, this was Dublin and not Vietnam, and medically speaking all was calm. Somehow, you do get diagnosed and treated amidst the clutter of screens, trays on wheels and monitoring equipment that have to be shoved around the working space as staff try to ensure some privacy for those in need of it. This, to me, is miraculous. Of course it begs the question about the general quality of hospital medical practice if – as I observed – portions of working time are fragmented into continually re-organising physical space for new patients in very cramped conditions. Surely it’s difficult for nurses and doctors to do the job properly, at least some of the time?

We were rivetted, of course, by the inevitable gouger charging down the corridor, threatening the nurses and security staff that he’d smash their f***ing faces in if they so much as laid a hand on him. This young tulip was dragging two children along to have them say good-night to a man I took to be their father.

During the interlude, the corridor went deathly quiet. Nurses hovered. We were expecting action, fists, blood and guts. It was as if a walking explosive had rolled in, unpredictable in its quick, darting movements. Violence breeds violence and although in no position to do so, I longed to reach out and grab the boy-man by the throat and squeeze hard. A Lithuanian security woman immediately radioed for help from her companions, but by then the young man was heading away again, the veins bulging in his neck as he muttered imprecations at the ‘scumbag foreigners who aren’t even from here for f***’s sake’. He returned a second time later on, still ranting and raving, making foul threats to the staff, calling them names and generally abusing them.

I can’t imagine what it’s like to have to hear this on a regular basis. What does it do to the soul of a person to hear themselves racially abused, or simply abused because they are Irish nurses? One thing’s for sure. Some of these motormouths wouldn’t dare square up like that to men, especially men who were bigger than they. But the women receive automatic abuse, for all the usual historical and physiological reasons: they are usually smaller, female and foreign. Easy target.

In the meantime, myself and a younger woman were put on trolleys in a corridor off a corridor, close to the Acute Accident Unit. I was glad I wasn’t actually in any pain, because every time the door from that unit opened, it slammed into the back of my trolley and staff then had to squeeze their way between the two of us.

The night was long. But miraculously, things quietened down. Patients on trolleys do fall asleep. It is possible to drift off for periods once the lights are dimmed. The young woman beside me was certainly pushing out the zzzs, softly, mouth open,  propped up with her iPod earphones plugged in. It’s not ideal, but you sleep in the hope that the next day will bring a bed. You want to black out, hurry time towards the  dawn.

The Philipino and South Indian nurses were on their feet all night. They work hard, these healers who also have to clear up so much detritus and human waste of one kind or another. As they’re barrelling the penicillin into the canula on your arms, you wonder how the heck they get so much right, and how incredible it is that there are people who really want to heal the sick professionally in today’s economically gluttonousIreland, in a land which offers limited access in emergency situations.

The spirit of Florrie Nightingale wasn’t so far away, I mused in the dim  corridor, as a nurse peeped through the screen to check that all was well with me and my companion. It might not be the Crimean War, but there’s a battle for access raging full force in our society, and greed is at the back of it, an unwillingness on the part of our government to release the funds, get the building done and stop fobbing the population off with mealy-mouthed excuses.

Right now, while the former economic gurus are sweating it out daily, some in more comfort than others, and the mood of the country is downright ugly, I don’t believe any of our political parties is up to the business of reforming the health service. They haven’t got the moral courage and they’re all on Plan E.

IN PRAISE OF GOOD MEN . . .

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Misogynist, woman-hater, rapist, selfish bastard, sexist pig, patriarchal git, controlling, domineering, overbearing, ambition-quashing male, and more. Sounds familiar? I’m sure it does. The recent dropping of charges against Dominique Strauss Kahn for the attempted rape of a hotel maid  resurrected such terms on the tongues of many, even if his star remains undimmed for others.  Yet most of us have been well-groomed to observe the ways modern man on the loose, sometimes by vigilant teachers in school, but also during third level modules designed to promote gender-justice in society, by helping students to interpret other kinds of messaging about the legacy of patriarchy.

            But. And there is a ‘but’. On the most superficial level, all you have to do is observe the television advertising which depicts men as helpless, silly and generally ineffective primates on the loose. Women, on the other hand, are sassy, clever, indelibly marked E for Erotic, and generally all-knowing creatures. But surely what was funny and relevant once, has long passed its sell-by date, just as thinking on gender has evolved and needs to be addressed in a different way. Although I belong to the cohort interested in women’s rights in particular, and will never, ever, understand why ‘good’ men don’t organise themselves politically to protest against the rapes, the violence, the assaults, the flagrant, foul conniving that affects women who might well be one of their sisters, mothers, wives or girlfriends, it’s hard not to also observe that today, Western men are getting a raw deal.

            So as 2011 draws to a sorry close, here’s to good men, who do not rape, pillage, overwhelm, disempower, control, silence or intimidate, because they number millions, and frequently struggle to do the right thing at the right time, never quite comfortable with the notion of ‘choice’ because they are attached to a system that encourages them to work till they drop (usually within two years of retirement), and because work is synonymous with ‘masculinity’ and achievement. And of course it’s a truism that work does generate a sense of achievement, that it’s healthy to work and healthy to feel the knife edge of competition from time to time. But if men are expected to be all things to all people at all times, (which ironically is what women often believe about themselves, especially once they marry and become parents, and even when they don’t marry but perhaps have to care for an elderly parent), the price is surely high.

            And perhaps because that price is high, it is so altitudinally dizzying that nobody really addresses it, least of all men themselves. Who among us today does not know some man whose marriage has ended, who supports an ex-wife (working or not) and children, has a mortgage and/or rent to pay, and who lives with the legal fall-out of the division of spoils and the custody agreement?  Who among us today does not know some guy whose job and entire way of life has also been pulled from beneath him, and who must still attempt to do all of the above? Hang on, I hear you protest, but aren’t women doing exactly the same thing?

Indeed they are, but the thing is, things never resolve as squeakily-clean as they appear on legal parchment. Rules are frequently bent, rancour often increases exponentially the further from the marriage the woman moves, (especially if the man starts up a new relationship) and once an ex-wife decides her husband is all of the things described in paragraph one above, this can turn his life into an emotional and financial hell. Not only is he supporting her expenses, their children (to the last cent, even if she too works), but, like Oliver Twist with his empty gruel-bowl, an ex can keep returning to court to ask for more as ‘living expenses’ mount. The person perceived by law to be in the weaker position can pull off an Oscar-winning performance playing the victim, the helpless one, the Mother of all Mothers. We all know this to be the case and it is a lie to state otherwise.       There are men of integrity everywhere, who genuinely want to do the right thing, even after a marriage has ended, yet it sometimes seems as if they live largely unsupported and unacknowledged within our victim-supporting society. Yet the meme persists that men are programmed to be bastards and that women are incapable of Bitchdom.

Neither statement is true, of course. For all the women who put in the hours after work doing the domestic tidy-up/meal preparation/ironing stint, there are men who somehow never make it into the reported statistics on how they pull their weight domestically: the putting out of bins, the de-hairing of shower plug-holes, the unblocking of toilets and sewage, the fixing, screwing, DIY, and yes – the meal preparation too. In this vexed area of modern coupledom, it appears that men have been written out of the story, unless their role is obstructive.

Then there is the much-mentioned verbal silence men allegedly prefer, an apparent inability to emote as women do. Why is this a problem? After all, it’s not a crippling disease, or a psychological malfunction, so much as another way of behaving, a manner of managing and responding to the world. Mind you, the number of silent men around seems few and far between, but on the question of feelings they definitely don’t wash, starch, tumble-dry and iron them with the alacrity and self-referential quality of some women.

            The film ‘American Beauty’ portrayed so many silences in male experience, and the great pain that punctures human male potential – from the silence of the protagonist’s marriage, to the tragic silence of the gay, ex-military father next door. Stack ‘American Beauty’ alongside ‘Thelma and Louise’ and you can book-end the two arguments regarding the liberation moods of two different decades. In the former, the crushing stress of being a conforming working male who is completely taken for granted is highlighted, while in the latter, the crushing weight of the worst aspects of patriarchy and the way the two women resist it made me cheer at the time.

            But outside Red Carpet Land, in the grubby, unrecorded, day-to-day cycle of survival, men in Ireland today are working, or trying to find work. They are being good lovers, good fathers, good sons, good mates and generally good guys. This does not imply women do not also tick these boxes (lovers, mothers, daughters, friends etc. etc), but it suggests that the current view of the male at large may need some adjusting. Women know that most men probably do believe themselves to be more equal; men have possibly got the message that women have a pretty high sense of their own value too; but in all the received ideas about men and their capacities, it’s possible to overlook the fact that they may actually be sentient humans of incredible tenacity, who have evolved with an added need to protect the vulnerable and fend for the weak. I hope that doesn’t sound patronising. It isn’t intended to be, more an acknowledgement of the way male energy has also shaped our world and made it sparkle. To dampen down what is distinctly male, would be an incredible loss to women, because quite often it is in difference that the beautiful tension of male-female relating is at its best. That male energy is so often perverted into teenager-to-teenager status wars, whether in the streets, or on the global warfront where mere boys are allowed to tote bazookas, that it is also perverted into the impulse to violate and rape, is one of the sorry legacies of our time, but one which points to the exploitation of the nobility of men (mostly by other males).

            In an ideal society, we would harness gender difference in the best possible way, with none of the violence so often associated with it, and none of the cunning victim games either. Let’s give ourselves a break by giving men a break.

Irish Women’s Drama: questions of response and location

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            In 1991 I was commissioned to write an article for The Irish Times inDublin, the heading for which was ‘Readingsfor women playwrights – but why not full performances?’ The question was intriguing then and remains so now, the only difference being that, by and large, rehearsed readings do not occur very much at all nowadays.

That year though, with Garry Hynes as Artistic Director of the National Theatre – the Abbey – there was a sense that things were happening, or about to happen. It is no coincidence that it was also the year in whichIrelandvoted in its first female president,MaryRobinson. It was a buzzy time, and the atmosphere for women was one in which the active pursuit of equality was still at its peak. In diverse areas, the pursuit of legislations regarding the social, work and personal rights of citizens was coming to a head, something which nonetheless extended only slowly to the dramatic arts.

            Regarding rehearsed readings, precedents had already been set for observing a process of artistic development, inGermany,England and the US. InDublin, the forward-looking Project Theatre had had several rehearsed readings of plays by men and women, before the Abbey Theatre, in an attempt to put the question of the work of women playwrights on the agenda, hosted a series of readings in its downstairs ‘studio’ theatre, the Peacock.

            The playwrights whose work was rehearse-read that afternoon were and are names familiar to many in Ireland today, among them Clairr O’Connor, Leland Bardwell, Celia de Freine, Louise C.Callaghan(at that time Hermana) and others. All of these women had published either poetry or fiction before. All of them continue to publish. With the exception of Celia de Freine, who has been writing drama since the nineteen eighties, none are staging work. De Freine’s work that day examined the life of the Irish revolutionary Countess Markievicz from an overtly political perspective. Louise C.Callaghan’s play ‘Find the Lady’ brought us into the life in exile of writer Kate O’Brien, also lifting the lid on O’Brien’s lesbianism and her relationship with an actress. Music from ‘Orpheus’ cut in and out through the dialogue, suggesting an underworld explored by O’Brien in the course of her life and travels in Spain.

            Most of the plays rehearse-read that day were not half-formed attempts at drama which would gradually be further improvised and brought to full performance. Most observers acknowledged, that these were by and large fully-fledged dramatic works in search of a theatre home, a director to take them in, and actors to perform and interpret and ultimately recreate them. They deserved more than what could easily be read as a pacifying sop to women dramatists.

Precedents have long been set within the area of writing by women, whereby new work has too often been regarded as either unformed or not ‘universal’ enough in its concerns, with the canon of tradition invariably drawn on as a last line of defence, that is, the theory that men have always been creators of art, but women have never really tried hard enough or are incapable of creating work of ‘universal’ value. InIreland, ‘universal’ in the world of theatre has tended to involve a strong focus on the question of Irish identity from a male point of view (especially in the plays of Tom Murphy, McPherson, and Martin MacDonagh). Playwrights such as Michael Harding, Dermot Bolger and Billy Roche focus on Ireland in evolution away from its colonial past, carried into a semi-liberal Western, busy world. But quite often in drama, the existing cultural pantheon signalled then and signals now, that male interpreted subject-preoccupations are the norm while female interpreted ones are – if not quite a norm – at best an exception.

            It cannot be argued that plays by Irish women have not been staged and performed however, when the truth is they do emerge from time to time. During the Nineties and since 2000 there have been a number of staged plays by women, among them Eilis Ni Dhuibhne (writing in Irish), Hilary Fannin, Ioanna Anderson, Stella Feehily and Elizabeth Kuti.  But the period has been dominated by canon-directed contributions from Conor McPherson, Billy Roche, Martin MacDonagh, Joe O’Byrne, Dermot Bolger, Jimmy Murphy, Michael Harding, Bernard Farrell and the late Hugh Leonard, not to mention Brien Friel, Frank McGuinness, Tom Kilroy, Tom MacIntyre and Tom Murphy. Their work created the main seam comprising publicly performed dramatic art in Ireland today, some of it valuable, entertaining, interesting and ground-breaking. Having observed much of what is on offer – and regardless of the fact that Dublin now has a Gay Theatre Festival – it  is arguably, quite acceptable to stage a homosexual theatre (a kind of unarticulated and glossed over theatre of homosexual as opposed, (thankfully), to homophobic emphasis in terms of those who create, direct, act and generally calibrate some works) and to have this regarded as a norm, while lesbianism still remains pushed to the outer edges of what is seen to be ‘experiment’. Critics rarely allude to this tendency, and if noted it appears to be accepted as a kind of dramatic norm whereby male dramatists, actors and directors assert the right to explore homosexuality but females rarely do the same.

            Yet the gap between male dramatic output and performance and its female corollary remains. Equality of endeavour with a matching result does not seem to be an option.

The female playwright by now canonical for most theatre commentators is Marina Carr. Other successful female playwrights include Marie Jones, whose play A Night in November galvanized thousands in audiences wherever this play travelled. Poet Paula Meehan has had a number of successes in theatre also, especially her Mrs. Sweeney, which picks up the thread of legend from a female perspective. But it is as if there is a trap door through which only one or at most two female playwrights may escape into the open arena of public theatre art on a regular basis. The active nourishment and mentoring integral to the building of a playwright’s career seems largely absent in relation to women.

            Marina Carr’s play Marble played at the Abbey for a number of weeks in early 2009. Reviews were mixed and audience responses equally so. This intriguing work of drama (which some viewers found menacing, and an unpleasant distortion of reality) did however receive the nurturing and rigorous working that any solid drama might expect to receive in the national theatre. The critics came from England (something highly valued in Ireland, where, it seems, the only imprimatur is an English one), because over the years Carr’s oeuvre has included several London productions. She is, after all, part of the Irish canon, from the inside out and the outside in. Yet when Marina Carr’s early works were staged in the late Eighties, it was to the Project Arts Theatre that she turned. Works like Ullaloo and Low in the Dark were given the space and treatment needed to foster new talent. Interestingly also at the time, reviews were at best muted and at worst patiently derisory (the late Gerry Colgan in the Irish Times reviewed her work with little interest). But Marina Carr’s artistic vision and persistent output – persistency of output is significant for bridging the gender divide – has secured her a place in literary history. Within years, her outstanding play Portia Coughlan had critics, audiences and directors looking for more, thus ushering in an unusually early peak for this writer consisting of plays such as By the Bog of Cats, Ariel, and The Mai.

            That her work has been treated seriously is now taken for granted. That it engages audiences at least until recently was quite apparent. But questions arise when it comes to other women playwrights. Strikingly, when a relative newcomer such as Fiona Looney, who has worked her way into theatre via journalism and regular comic exposure on a morning radio chat-show, (rather than the traditionally anonymous beaten track) comes to the stage it is to the Olympia Theatre, an obviously commercial, bums-on-seats venue which likes to pack audiences in and entertain them. One does not associate theOlympiawith the canonical and neither do critics. However, having attended two of Looney’s plays the whole question of venues and women’s plays raises its head interestingly. Why is the Abbey suitable for a playwright likeCarrand theOlympiafor Looney?

Looney’s most recent play October – a black comedy with pathos, depth of character, striking contemporaneity – was a superbly structured work which utilised its stage space to the full and applied mixed media techniques to handle such things as the passing of time in the play’s narrative. The plot revolves around a stay-at-home modern Mum in southDublin who is about to return to work now that her children are reared. Supportive husband, pleasant academic young daughter, nice home, unpretentious yet educated, realistic protagonist. But WHAM! her younger sister arrives home fromLondon – the one whose freedom, beauty, wardrobe and money she has quietly envied all these years – only to break the news that she has Multiple Sclerosis.

The topical question of being a care-giver is often to the fore in terms of media analysis today, equally so the question of responsibility, guilt and support. It is not, however, one of those topics which one imagines today’s Ibsens, Lorcas or Jean Genets writing about, because it is, after all, a ‘female’ subject, is it not? In this play – which contains some lyrical moments despite its savagery and bleak humour – the playwright doesn’t compromise or obfuscate. The disingenuous, prettified solution is simply not available to her writing. But it begs a speculation: that certain subjects are disregarded by theatres as being too ‘soft’, too ‘womany’, or even too realistic/naturalistic and therefore against current accepted dramatic practice. Others are safer bets provided the female characters are vaguely bohemian or comically suburban, or play a weary, used-up girlfriend, or an unloved, misunderstood daughter. In other words, provided they are the object of the writer’s attention, objectified within a play, and never the subject and first creator of both play and, as an actor, the vivid recreator of a viably universal female role.

The Looney play, by the way, doubled its run and had full houses (a ninety-percent female audience throughout), whereas the Carrwork – a recognisably artistic work – closed on schedule. If artistic directors and critics reflect on the art that lies fundamentally embedded in the gritty ordinary themes that structure women’s lives and allowed women playwrights to get on with illuminating aspects of these, so-called ‘art’ theatres they might not find themselves in the financially compromised and Arts Council dependent state in which they exist. What is so unacceptable about menopause as a dramatic subject – Women on the Verge of HRT by Marie Jones played to full houses at the Olympia and at another commercial theatre, Andrew’s Lane, before moving to London’s West End – that pushes it beyond the Pale in terms of serious critical reception?

Some recognition of what appeals to women audiences might go a long way to redress the constant dilemma faced by theatres, of how to fill seats and secure funding. But yet other questions arise: do critics themselves need to be re-educated? Why are they not trained in clear thinking that allows them to understand their role in the process of mediating, informing and analysing just what is at stake whenever a playwright brings a work to full performance? They are not merely journalists, yet frequently they ‘review’ without supplying a necessary layer of critique, and even then it is clear that those who write for the better print outlets are moving comfortably enough within theatre circles. In other words, everybody knows everybody else rather too well.

As it happened, the Looney and Jones plays filled up by word of mouth rather than critical votes, whereas the Carr work played out competently to the end of its run, having been thoroughly and seriously mulled over by frequently unenthusiastic critics that one suspected were reluctant to be too harsh on the woman who is apparently the ‘chosen’ female of her generation. This is not good forMarinaCarr. A brilliant playwright such as she deserves to be critiqued in an open field in which consciousness of gender and her virtually solitary position in this matter, is not a consideration.

One can only speculate on the paradox that if the Irish National Theatre were to reconsider its idea of what art is, and make of it a dramatic process which truly has the capacity to engage, illuminate and transform the onlooker/participator, it would have to forego some of its safer artistic bets, its postmodern love-affair with predictable themes, and have the imaginative courage to bring on board the better women playwrights, actively pushing them into the critical light.

            The question of encouraging women playwrights has faded as a subject for discussion in Irelandas we approach the end of the first decade of the twenty-first millennium. There are hotter agendas now: it is sometimes thought that Irelandis what many refer to as a multi-cultural society. In fact, it is a multi-ethnic society which expects its non-national population to adapt to a homogeneous norm. But the theatre world too has its sights set on that society of migrants, and their problems. It is no longer set on women, and the critics do not care. What may be overlooked in the matter of women playwrights and migrants, and in the enthusiasm for ethnicities, is that both groups – with their knot of sub-groups – are more complex, richer, more worth investing dramatic energy in that the orthodoxies of the Irish theatre world have as yet recognised. The richness of other cultural groupings has always enhanced our Irish world – thinking especially of the Jewish immigrants from the turn of the nineteenth century – and there is no reason to believe this should not happen again. It is a dream of mine, that the ethnicities, and the women of our society, would be absorbed and worked with, that their light is allowed to shine.

Eighteen years after that afternoon of rehearsed readings at the Abbey Theatre, which the critics were invited to attend, and which were greeted with excitement by some of us, it is a given today, that most Irish theatres feel no obligation to work deliberately with women who write drama, believing they have something to contribute to the evolving history of theatre. The subject-matter of men – white, Irish men at that – remains more relevant than that of women. 

Chick-lit, elitism, and writing.

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What I am about to say will inevitably get up the noses of chick-lit and hen-lit writers. The only thing I apologise for in advance is those god-awful terms, but at least if I use them we will all know what I’m talking about. The other thing I have to say is that I’m fairly sure this blog isn’t widely read, so that affords me a certain relaxed freedom to post my considered views on this, that and the other. It’s not that I want to avoid debate, but that knowing a blog is little read is like writing a diary – an extension of thoughts onto page, taking them pretty much as they come.

So, here we go.

Too many good writers sit back and smile tolerantly at the ching-ching of Euros into the bookshop till as yet another six-inch deep tome of relationship narrative sells to people who probably sit up in their flanelette Snuggies with a mug of cocoa or a glass of wine and suck up this stuff. Now many writers are so damn civilised about all of this, with never a murmur of objection from literary lips, although heaven knows what they think privately may be a very different matter. They recognise that the women who buy all of our titles, the women who are our most valued and precious customers, so to speak, will sometimes happily buy anything for a bit of escapism. And they are afraid of causing offence by stating that some readers have appallingly bad taste. I know I’m not supposed to say anything verging on criticism of reader tastes, especially as I’m a writer. It’s a bit like shooting yourself in the foot, isn’t it? I did it once already in the Irish Times when I vented a criticism or three about certain book-clubs around the country, and the response was thunderingly grim and intolerant. Intolerant of what, you may ask? Intolerant of my belief that writers should not sit back and pretend they don’t really mind the fact that particularly odious storytelling is being published and handsomely rewarded, while eejits like us fret about the nature of art, existence and where we ‘fit’ into the ‘canon’. It’s quite funny actually, because it goes without saying that all writers want commercial success, yet what I’ll call the ‘literary’ writers make zilch because – frankly – it appears not enough people are interested enough in penetrating thoughts on the part of invented characters, on lyrical passages, on startling stylistic departures or the urbane and perverse wit that goes hand in hand with books that matter.

As a result of chick-lit, the literary novel occupies a more precarious than ever position in a market which seems generally to favour the mind-pollution of romance, lust, and girlish intrigue.  There is nothing wrong with being entertaining (if this is what entertains you), but there is something very disingenuous about fiction which portrays the world not even in fairy-tale terms. It is an insult to compare chick-lit with fairy-tales, because in the fairy-tale there is an overlay of mythic dimension, a drawing on archetypal images that make many such tales challenging to the mind.

In chick-lit, the writer is intent on producing the equivalent of fast food: a novel that is quickly gulped down, a mixture of girl-meets-boy, or woman-wants to-meet-man, in a context that will also include humour, some sex, not too many unusual adjectives, and often, a very happy ending for all concerned. Because the readers of such books must never, ever, be disturbed by what they read. They must certainly never be allowed to think about life and what it means to live.  And if I am labelled ‘elitist’ for having written that, to be honest I couldn’t care less, and am perfectly happy to be part of an elite, if that word means something to do with striving for the best possible outcome within one’s work as art. There is nothing wrong with being ambitious for the quality of the work, whatever about the career, but some writers operate the other way around.

In Ireland, there is currently enormous encouragement for women to produce thick, tranquillising, glossy romances, and the market is truly flooded. These are novels produced by women who until recently wrote within an economically robust socio-cultural context, where there was huge spending power and book buying was an automatic and disposable activity. Another approach is what I’ll call the Turn Trauma to Profit approach, a kind of Chick and Bantam Lit (because the guys weigh in here, it must be said). Said writer experiences some of life’s dirtier tricks – sadness, illness, grief, betrayal, addiction and abuse – and turns it into a confessional work that never moves away from ‘I’, ‘I’, ‘I’ – because such authors never evolve beyond the ‘I’, and that is their artistic tragedy.

My difficulty with such books lies in how they reflect publishers’ encouragement of women to entertain above all else. It is our role, apparently, to be the equivalent of the geisha who possesses skills in music and knowledge of the arts, is adept at dance, song, and good conversation, but must still subvert her deepest, darkest and possibly most sparkling abilities for the sake of soothing other sensibilities and for the sake of social tranquillity.

But for fiction writers who choose not to play the geisha, there is a viable world. In the middle of the recession, it’s interesting to note that publishers themselves are scrambling for cover, and taking few risks. It is said that the era of ‘chick-lit’ may even be almost over. I don’t believe that for a minute of course. But I do sometimes wonder if, with the transfer of reading to e-books, the literary novel (i.e. the well-written story that takes a few style and vocabulary gambles) might find itself still floating on – still there, still in some demand. And let’s face it, we are all, to a man and woman, interested in commercial success.

King’s Lynn Poetry Festival, September 2011

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So I found myself heading for King’s Lynn last weekend, the train moving quietly along via Cambridge and gradually into the heart of East Anglia and the fens. The sun shone, the fields were green and bright, cut by bright canals of water. I had no idea the land was so flat there, but it stretched on either side of the train for miles and miles with perhaps only a low-lying village roofscape or a church on the far horizon. On the train I found myself in one of those comical Maeve Binchy situations: across the aisle were two poets I’d never met before, and a quick perusal of the festival programme confirmed that they were poets X and Y, both deep in poetic gossip of a fairly harmless but recognisable kind. X announed to Y that another poet – due to read at the festival – was a hypochondriac, but that at least he knew it. Beautiful, ageing, Y spoke in dulcet tones about his wife and her tenantcy problems. I began to feel guilty as I could pick up every word, yet shied away from moving across and introducing myself. I was actually quite happy with my own company and not ready at that early hour to push myself toward conversation. Much easier to sit and listen to Radio Poetry while my eyes absorbed a new landscape!

On arrival, we were met at the platform by a bag-piper and the festival organisers, who welcomed us with champagne. The day was warm and dry, a few degrees more so than in Ireland at the time, and very quickly poet-to- poet chat got underway. It was all very cheerful and polite compared to the way things are done here at home. Sincerely polite too, not polite in quotation marks.

Still: I had reason to ruminate a LOT over the weekend, partly because I realised howccompletely unprepared I was for English poetic conservativism, the more so because two or three participants were fairly dogged old scribblers, entrenched in their ways, and utterly opposed to Modernism. Hello? Anybody there aware that it’s now the 21st century? Er . . . I nearly fell off my chair and off the stage in the Town Hall as poet X (from the train) announced with some melancholy that the great tragedy for English poetry was TS Eliot and Modernism. This morsel was uttered in the course of a discussion prior to the publication of the Michael Hulse edited new anthology of 20th century Poetry in English, in which we participating poets were invited to consider who we believed should definitely be included, while said very personable Hulse chaired proceedings.  To say that I found the dislike of Eliot to be profoundly shocking is an under-statement. Even worse was to come, the casually dismissive response to ‘experimental’ poetry, to American poetry, indeed to anything which, it seems, is not still locked in the grip of late Victorian metres. I put in my oar and attempted a defence of some sort of the notion of experiment – because without experimentation, nothing happens, does it? – and how the best of American writing has actually reinvigorated English-language poetry and invited it to parttake of the active sense of serious ‘play’ that sometimes accompanies it. However, I was the outsider poet, in a sense, and although I was heard, I was not really heard. At times like that, I wish I was one of those mouthy women who can’t be shut up!

I did however meet some wonderful poets while there: Andrea Porter, D.M.Black, Alan Brownjohn and Kit Wright among them, who brought interest, verve, some humour, and serious poetry to the weekend programme.

There was also the added bonus of meeting my publisher from Arc, (based in Hebden Bridge, Yorkshire), Tony Ward and Angela Jarman, both utterly charming, professional and a pleasure to be with. And it was a chance for me to read some new poems for their ear(s), specifically.

King’s Lynn, Hay, Aldeburgh over there – Cuirt, ex-Poetry Now, Mountains to the Sea, or the Patrick Kavanagh Weekend over here – it does make me consider about the notion of festivals though, and we Irish are no slouches when it comes to poetry festival know-how. Do outsiders, non-writers, recognise how careers are made or frozen into nothingness at such events? Have they any idea of the amount of hard work that goes into all the gaiety, the discussion, the readings? They are wonderful to take part in and yet so often depend on the personality and/or celebrity of the participants to draw crowds. But festivals also highlight the despoiling of once-talented poets who have effectively sold-out to being crowd-pleasers, who are part of the establishment and can take it for granted they’ll be invited to read at the major festivals, who get to read what might be not their best work and find it uncritically lauded. Do I sound envious? Sure I do. It feeds into my sense of fair play and merit, things which interest me infinitely more than celebrity line-ups because often a less-obvious ‘name’ may actually be the more interesting writer/performer. I do hate speaking of ‘names’, as if writers were commodities. We are not commodities and never will be, although the administrative element within the arts does threaten us with such a destiny.

Perhaps that’s the nature of life and perhaps it doesn’t matter. It probably doesn’t, provided there is fair play (something the English value, as well as me) and poets are not allowed to present views as if they had canonical value. Poets have an obligation to be alive in the moment, to be of their time, and not to look back in bitterness to an imagined idyll, especially when as we all know, idylls rarely exist and when they do are frequently inhabited by a poison-penned serpent or two.

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